According to an article published in The Guardian abusers “are often personable and likeable, and that is how they have been able to abuse.” There are also no proper resources to protect women against abuse. Davina James-Hanman spoke to The Guardian about some of her findings from investigating cases of women killed by their partnersRead more
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Victims of domestic violence are sadly very familiar with the symptoms of stress. Even survivors of abuse can experience stress long after escaping an abusive relationship, because “flashbacks to the abuse may be just as invasive.” According to an article by Amanda Klippert published on Domestic Shelters Org, the “body is not meant to handleRead more
Society has a very limited view of what constitutes abuse. To most people abuse means a blue eye, bruises, and blood. This limited knowledge of abuse is dangerous. It excludes all other types of abuse. If people don’t know what abuse is, they won’t know when it is busy happening to them. They will tolerateRead more
It is easy to become discouraged by your circumstances, but you also have the power to change your mindset. When you consciously shift your mindset by repeating a positive statement followed by a positive action that reinforces the statement, and you practice mindfulness. You become present in the moment. According to an article by mentalRead more
We can all probably remember at least one person who shamed us for our perceived weaknesses; it can be a teacher who scolded you in front of your classmates for not knowing how to solve a math’s problem, a friend who teased you for not being able to play sport or siblings who teased youRead more
It isn’t always easy to recognise abuse, especially when you’re living with the abuser daily facing physical, emotional, verbal, and/or financial abuse. When you love someone, and they say they love you too, it can be hard to believe they would intentionally hurt you. That’s why it’s important to take a step back and reflectRead more
After you’ve experienced a domestic violence situation, you can doubt your ability to identify good people who will add value to your life. You start to close-up, not trusting your instincts. You aim to protect yourself, to not let anyone get too close to you because if they’re not close enough, they won’t be ableRead more
Dr. Knoll, who is the director of forensic psychiatry and associate professor of psychiatry, indicates in his article published on PsychCentral that many people “are unable fathom how a human being could commit such acts without being under the influence of some powerful alien force”, acts such as the horrific mass public shootings in ElRead more
People in abusive relationships tend to do a lot of introspection. They wonder why it has happened to them, what they have done to attract this poor treatment from someone they love or who says they love them. It can be a very confusing time for a victim of domestic violence. When you experience domestic,Read more
Gaslighting happens every day and in every environment, whether it be work, the media, school or at home. According to an article published on Psychology Today, by professor and author Preston Ni, “gaslighting can be defined as a combination of brainwashing, psychological bullying, and emotional abuse for domination and control.” He says that “in ourRead more